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Magical words that raise happy children
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Publishing company: Thai Ha
Author: Erika Takeuchi
Translator: Minh Nhat
Publisher: Lao Dong
Year of publication: 2020
Number of pages: 230
Paper size: 13 x 19cm
[ThaiHaBooks] Magical words to raise happy children by Erika Takeuchi - who has over 20 years of experience in the field of education, has the opportunity to interact with nearly 9,000 father-daughter pairs. During that process, the author realized how the words of parents have a great influence on their children's personalities.
Children who are encouraged "I believe you can do it" will accept challenges without fear. Children who are encouraged "Do your best" will always try their best. Children who hear the words "Thank you" will become children who know the value of gratitude. On the contrary, children who are told "You are of no use" will become self-conscious, always thinking "I am a throwaway, of no use."
Children will memorize 30,000 words by the end of the age of 6. Let's turn these 30,000 words into positive words of encouragement to cheer and encourage children in daily life. Whether a child's temperament is good or bad depends on what the parents say. In Magical Words to Raise Happy Children, the author will share with parents each stage of their child's development and the sentences they should use to be able to make effective statements.
0 years old: Create a feeling of peace of mind, nurture sensitive abilities
1 year old: Stimulates curiosity
2 years old: Accepts emotions, soothes frustration
3 years old: Supports and exercises your child at the same time independence
4 years old: Ability to think for yourself, know how to overcome difficulties
5 years old: Ability to sympathize, know how to care for others
6 years old: Nurturing a sense of self-affirmation
Book excerpt:
Change clauses command into a question “What do you want?” makes children think
When a problem occurs, while children are thinking for themselves, do adults often immediately suggest a solution "Should we do this..."? When children are about to try something, do adults often say, "It's not possible"? When children put faith in themselves, do adults bring up past failures to say, "It's always been the same for me"?
When children encounter something, always ask the question "What do you think should be done now?", "Which way is better?", to make children think. Children will think in their own way and make their own choices. If this is made a regular habit, then when faced with a problem, children will be able to ask themselves, "What should I do?", and find a solution for themselves. Adults should try to change little by little, from teaching children something to coaching them, asking questions so they can think for themselves. Find ways to reveal your child's potential. As long as adults change their way of speaking, they will definitely see great changes in children.
Know the development according to each age in advance to be able to ask effective questions
0 AGE CREATES A FEEL OF PEACE OF MIND, NURTURES Sensitive Ability
0 age is an important stage to nurture sensitive ability, which is the basis for a sense of self-affirmation. Even though children don't know anything yet, telling them the beautiful words "The world you were born into is truly a very happy and wonderful place", or having full skin-to-skin contact plus the communication process using many rich words to convey the message "Mommy is always here, please rest assured" are necessary actions.
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